there is this guy I met at the night club he danced with me and then we made out for like an hour. then later he had to go home but my cab wasn't here yet he said he didn't want to leave me so he took me to his house. my parents were so mad that I was scared to be in trouble. But he was always there hugging me telling me that everything will be fine. Now the next day I send him a facbook message but he doesn't talk that much to me. I really like him but im just confused if he likes me back or did he just want to hook up with me last night??? I don't know what to do next
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Not so fast. No one said "tricked." Yes, she made a choice, but women think rather differently than men. She wanted him to like her, and she went against her instincts. Unfortunately, women do that. I try to teach them to slow down & be smarter.
savvydating, I never said anyone said she was "tricked". I simply acknowledged the fact that there were (no) tricks. Men also go against their instincts. Taking responsibility for one's mistakes is a sign of maturity. We learn from (our) mistakes.
A teenager with a fake I.D. doesn't have maturity. In fact, when it comes to romance, neither do most 50 year-old people... which is why the best thing to do is slow down. This is where the girl must take charge, dashing s; the boy almost never will.
savvydating, Clearly she lacks maturity! No mature person would be asking if someone "likes" them after knowing them for less than 24 hours. The boy could be just as immature in not considering her possible motives for saying yes. Life lessons!
Respect is earned overtime. When girls give a guy the "brush off" men don't call it disrespect. Too often when women experience "indirect rejection" they view it as not being respected when in fact it just means a guy is not into them.