I love this girl with all of my heart, I have my own flaws but before I realize the things that I lack of she already has someone else the 1st time and she hid it from me for 2 mo's, we used to live in the same roof for 3 yrs, the first time she cheated was during our 2 yrs and 10 mo's of living together, and she left me, the day I left our home was a month before our 3rd year living together. Then I searched for her and we reconciled, but after we reconciled we are having communication challenges, we only see each other twice a week that time, after 2 mo's she has another lover the 2nd time.
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She was having problem w/ her parents and family when she cheated on me, its just that we have commucation problem and its a long distance relationship when she left our home. I am saving money for us to startover again.
I would want to stay with her and help her specially that she has no one now, except the fact that when I was not there, there is this man that likes her and comforted her and so she was vulnerable w/ all the problem and that made her feel guilty.
Crypton, Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse This woman cheated because SHE wanted to. Whatever man she spends time with is because SHE wants to. Refusing to acknowledge this is lying to yourself. Don't get used again.
I hope Lord will give me strength to face the truth, and I hope Lord will heal this pain, but I will help my self even though it is really hard for me.
Crypton, I know this is hard to believe but you will get through this! Just about every man or woman has had their heart broken. Most of us heal and find others to love. Best of luck! https://hubpages.com/relationships/ABreakupMethod...
I realized that she did this out of her problem, I would be honest she has no home, no family, no money, no work and so while I was away a man who likes her saw that opportunity, she fell and during that time I was not able to help her.
The guy is almost ten years older than her, sometimes she will say she wanna break up w/ me then later she would tell me that she loves more than that guy, then would cry and say please take me home and put me back to the girl I was.