I am an international student from Beijing. I was having a really good time with my gf. Two month passed, yesterday she said she wanna quit. She can't bear the sufferings. She think there will be no future for us because of our different goals. This makes me feel like I am dying. I try to fix our relationship but she looks so determined. Living in Adelaide alone and no family, I feel so lonely and great pressure now. Sometimes I think it is meaningless for me to spend a huge sum of money coming to abroad. I lost her. What should I do now? I really don't want to let her go
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Thanks buddy! really thank you to responding me! i feel much better after reading that. "Don't ever sit there wondering how to get a girl back, instead become the man you want to become." That is what i am going to do. thank you
I'm gonna give you my number one tip in life buddy, & this is very powerful stuff!..Whenever you talk to anyone always smile first & say hi how you doing etc, & always look them in the eyes when chatting..Do this with everyone, & alw
Thanks again. In daytime is alright. I need to do other things, which can distract me. I smiled to my classmates and chat happily. But in the night is so difficult. I wake up at 4 am in the morning. The dying feeling comes again. Will time cure this?
Yes buddy time will cure how you feel, or you can realise that "you" create your own feelings/emotions...Also use some logic mate you just had a nice girlfriend, so you will have another one that's logic...Accept that how you feel is normal.
Very true what you say about being the one....I know loads of people that reckon their ex was their soul mate, but i tell them they can't have been other wise they'd still be together....I got this last year, but some never get it & dwell for yea
Hey buddy iv'e had some weird, & wonderful girlfriends over the years (although mostly weird!lol)...But i can look back, & clearly see what iv'e learn't from each one of them (about myself that is!)...I bet you learn't some valuable lessons f