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Liking different things is what makes us "individuals". Everyone has their own "screening process". We may not share their same feeling about things but that's okay.
It's (their) life! :-)
Suppose someone states they won't consider a toothless person, or someone who is extremely short, or unemployed, or has a criminal (past) who otherwise they're totally compatible. Everyone is entitled to pursue their "ideal" mate. It's preferences
Sure. I think we all have the tendency to be a little shallow, but it doesn't necessarily make us shallow people. I think to be a shallow person you'd have to give precedence to physical preference over other qualities.
I don't believe you can help what you're attracted to. If you hate coconut, your favorite color is blue, or dislike certain scents it doesn't make you shallow. Those things uniquely make you (you)! Shallow is a judgmental word used to shame us.
I don't really think it's judgmental - having a preference for hair colour or breast size isn't exactly 'deep', you know? I'm also not trying to say having physical preferences is bad, as long as it doesn't rank higher than more significant qualities
Being called "shallow" is not exactly a compliment. LOL! It usually means someone has judged (your preferences) to be substandard when compared to their own. It's an insult. You get to decide what is significant in your life! They just disagree.
Curious Aime, why should sexual attractions be dismissed? Doesn't it matter if the people are a perfect couple but can't find a happy sexual life because of differences?That would ruin the relationship if one was left feeling there wants didnt matter
I never said they should be dismissed. All I'm saying is that is that I think it would be shallow to disregard an emotional compatibility based on something like breast size.
I am perfectly okay with people not agreeing, but those are my thoughts!
junkseller, It's doubtful anyone is looking for only (one) trait in making relationship decisions. Large breast may be just one of his requirements and not every woman with them is automatically girlfriend/wife material. :-)