It has nothing to do with the calendar and everything to do with when I realize it's how I feel about them.
The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship you want, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least there is a (mutual) depth of love and desire for one another.
Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde