I am seeing a guy who is almost perfect for me in every way and I really like him but every time he talks about getting intimate I just want to run away. This isn't the first time I had that reaction, and I really don't want to lose him. So what is the best way to get over the fear or is it just one of those things where you just have to dive in and do?
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Very true and thank you for your answer. I know I am not ready and will have to lay that on the table and see what will happen. If he likes me he should stick around right so if he doesn't than its a good thing I waited right?
Yes I was honest and asked what he was after and in a long about way he ptetty much admitted he wasn't looking for a relationship so I dumped him. So I realized to trust what your head says about the situation.
Melissa Noon sounds like you two didn't want the same things.
"Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions. The purpose of the mind is to protect the heart."
This cuts down on the number of regrets and heartaches.
Melissa, you did the right thing.Don't let anybody influence your decisions when they are life changing experiences. I'm happy for you. Don't worry about your fear, it will happen at the right time, with the right guy.