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Why do married men still seek friendship with other women?


I have an account in Tagged and I emphasized there that I am married and that I am not going to accept add request for friendship. I explained too that the only reason I keep the account is because it has some sentimental value to me because that is where my husband and I found each other. But lots of married men are still sending me message and ask for friendship. When I asked if they know I am married most answered that they too are married and that they just want friendship.

 

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    You are perfectly right. That's why I ignore them. They don't need friendship, they have some vacuum within them that needs to be filled in by flirting with other women who might respond to them.


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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    Which means, they are not sure of their own worth as a person...they need to prove to themselves that they are lovable.

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    Link10103 3 years ago

    Tagged is basically a lesser known version of Myspace. I dont think its geared toward romantic relationships especially, but it has them in mind.


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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    I am not talking about best friends who are familiar to us personally. I am talking about married men who are searching for stranger women to make friends with and possibly flirt with. Thanks for the answer.

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    You have a point. Not every man has ulterior motives...and that some men believe men and women can be friends regardless of status...my experience is different though, most men, wanted to befriend me in Tagged show motives other than mere friendship.

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    In Tagged I post photos of my husband and me from the beginning till our marriage. There is a value system that I am trying to convey especially concerning sincerity of motives and honesty in relationships.

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    A painful reality...very straightforward answer. Thanks Globe. My heart would break if my husband does it, am more traditional in marriage principles.


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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    Each person has a vacuum within that one needs to fill in and each has his/her own way to fill it in. I would still prefer integrity.

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    I like the straightforwardness of your comment. Very true but I had learned to ignore them and they don't bother me at all. I was just wondering why these people are seeking for things that may destroy them in the long run.

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    I like so much on how you see the situation in its perspective. Yes, it's not my issue and all I do is just ignore them. I was just curious because I had been warning my husband not to do the same. He too keeps his account in Tagged for the same reas

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    Jenny Pugh (Jynzly) 3 years ago

    That's a very sound suggestion. It's not that I am bothered by men's request...I ignore all of them though. My husband also has an active account in Tagged for the same rason.