I have an account in Tagged and I emphasized there that I am married and that I am not going to accept add request for friendship. I explained too that the only reason I keep the account is because it has some sentimental value to me because that is where my husband and I found each other. But lots of married men are still sending me message and ask for friendship. When I asked if they know I am married most answered that they too are married and that they just want friendship.
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In Tagged I post photos of my husband and me from the beginning till our marriage. There is a value system that I am trying to convey especially concerning sincerity of motives and honesty in relationships.
You have a point. Not every man has ulterior motives...and that some men believe men and women can be friends regardless of status...my experience is different though, most men, wanted to befriend me in Tagged show motives other than mere friendship.
Each person has a vacuum within that one needs to fill in and each has his/her own way to fill it in. I would still prefer integrity.
Tagged is basically a lesser known version of Myspace. I dont think its geared toward romantic relationships especially, but it has them in mind.
Tagged is a site where flirting begins. To make friends with opposite sex who are familiar with both spouses is okay but to meet strangers whose objective is to flirt despite being married already is something else.
Ah, I see. That is sketchy then. I would delete the account. The other poster's suggestion about printing out what you want to save is good.
Which means, they are not sure of their own worth as a person...they need to prove to themselves that they are lovable.
I am not talking about best friends who are familiar to us personally. I am talking about married men who are searching for stranger women to make friends with and possibly flirt with. Thanks for the answer.
A painful reality...very straightforward answer. Thanks Globe. My heart would break if my husband does it, am more traditional in marriage principles.
Being open and not being attached to anything( that includes relationships) is a radical view but eventually will save you from heartaches.Nothing like being prepared with a "DISASTER KIT" lol! .You will handle the catastrophe like a pro.LOL!
It's very natural for me to be so attached in relationships, my children and husband most specifically. I had been so hurt but I get over them eventually. I experience both the sweetness and the bitterness...I dare and get over those helpless cases..
Ay naku Jynz, we all have been hurt.I have lost and I have cried but thank goodness,I have learned my lesson well. I have learned to let go and even learned to love and bless all the unpleasant circumstances in my life.That's very liberating.
I like so much on how you see the situation in its perspective. Yes, it's not my issue and all I do is just ignore them. I was just curious because I had been warning my husband not to do the same. He too keeps his account in Tagged for the same reas
That's a very sound suggestion. It's not that I am bothered by men's request...I ignore all of them though. My husband also has an active account in Tagged for the same rason.
I like the straightforwardness of your comment. Very true but I had learned to ignore them and they don't bother me at all. I was just wondering why these people are seeking for things that may destroy them in the long run.