There are lots of "ones". This planet has over 7 billion people on it!
Odds are in everyone's favor that there is more than "one" person who would be ideal for each of us.
The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least there is mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys! :)
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