It's rare these days than any husband wants less money coming into the household. Unless you have small children and deep down (you) long to be a "stay at home mother" there is no reason cut the household income.
For all you know he could get laid off in the next six months!
Traditionally men were assigned the task of being the head of the household, family, and main breadwinner. Even in the fairytales the prince or the knight sweeps the damsel of distress off her feet and she never has to worry about anything for the rest of her life.
Believe it or not there are still some women who LOVE to have a husband tell them they don't have to work!
Ideally you would have had discussions prior to marriage which would have illustrated that you're not the type of woman who wants to spend her days watching daytime TV and creating dinner menus for the week or cleaning house while waiting for him to come home.
Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
Some women are naturally drawn towards "take charge" men because it makes them feel safer and secure. Others want a man who treats them like an equal partner. And still other women have no issue with being the breadwinner if the man takes care of the household and children.
There are all types of men out there. A woman just needs to know what kind of man (she) wants before she chooses to marry one.