If you google the definition of forgiveness you will find the following definition:"Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as vengefulness."I have forgiven those who have done things to hurt me. The key to forgiveness is letting the negative emotions go. It does not mean you will move forward wth friendship or dating because that person is not of good character. A snake bites naturaly. Have you forgiven someone who hurt you? What was the meeting/conversation like?