If you were married or in a long term relationship with children and your ex spouse or significant other confess as being transgender, would you feel like your relationship was a sham?
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I can see that it could be seen as betrayal, particularly early on. I'd hope I didn't but hey - we're all human
betrayal: to fail or desert; to lead astray..Hiding a truth from someone that would surely end a relationship is certainly shocking as well as a betrayal. We can recover from a shock, but losing a loved 1 is impossible to overcome.
d.william ; When people exchange their wedding vows they promise to "forsake all others". Betrayal is to break a promise or breach someone's trust. Twenty plus years ago Bruce had no way of knowing he'd (choose) to become Caitlyn over being a man
i know what UR saying, but when we know at an early age that we R different from others & choose 2 hide it out of fear,betrayal is inevitable when the weight of carrying the burden becomes 2 much 2 bear.The victims R not 2 blame-society is
dashingscorio said,"Twenty plus years ago Bruce had no way of knowing he'd (choose) to become Caitlyn over being a man:.
According to his own interviews, he claimed to be a female and chose the name Caitlin as a young boy. He knew back then.
It's one thing to "imagine" doing something in your life and another to ever (believe) you'd have the courage to do it! Lots of people live out their lives with secret fantasies. At age 65 after 2 marriages to get to this point it was not planned