He goes out a lot and I don't really do anything or have many friends so I used to argue about him going out and not talking to me. Now I've accepted it and I'm trying not to argue because I don't want to push him away. However, I have given him so much in the relationship and gotten nothing back. He promised me multiple times that he would prioritise me in summer but so far he hasn't. I asked him about it and he got angry & defensive. He comes home late so we only talk a couple hours a day and see each other once a week, how can I get him to care and see it from my point of view. I miss him
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" Life is too short to spend it with the wrong partner waiting for them to magically change. It isn't going to happen."
- Very true!
I'm willing to bet that her lack of friends has something to do with her being unavailable to them because she is too busy keeping track of her boyfriend.
I believe you're probably on the mark Motherbynature. Sadly, a lot of women tend to do this, get so hung up on their relationships they lose themselves.
However will it mean he's (really) changed?
She said the guy doesn't spend time with her & hardly talks to her! He's either seeing someone else or simply doesn't care about her. He may throw her a crumb or two but he'll never give her the cake.
^ This right here- awesome answer.
Hearing it from a man's point of view is very affirming.
Dashing...you are so wise and your comments speak with clarity and sensibility.
Thanks Christian and Paula!
All we can do is hope she reads and listens in her heart to what we have told her. The hardest part to moving on is letting go.
Oh my goodness so much wisdom here too - love all the answers here :)