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How can I get my boyfriend to be the way he used to & see things from my point of view?


He goes out a lot and I don't really do anything or have many friends so I used to argue about him going out and not talking to me. Now I've accepted it and I'm trying not to argue because I don't want to push him away. However, I have given him so much in the relationship and gotten nothing back. He promised me multiple times that he would prioritise me in summer but so far he hasn't. I asked him about it and he got angry & defensive. He comes home late so we only talk a couple hours a day and see each other once a week, how can I get him to care and see it from my point of view. I miss him

 

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Christin Sander (ChristinS) says

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    dashingscorpio 2 years ago

    " Life is too short to spend it with the wrong partner waiting for them to magically change. It isn't going to happen."

    - Very true!


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    dashingscorpio 2 years ago

    However will it mean he's (really) changed?

    She said the guy doesn't spend time with her & hardly talks to her! He's either seeing someone else or simply doesn't care about her. He may throw her a crumb or two but he'll never give her the cake.

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    Christin Sander (ChristinS) 2 years ago

    ^ This right here- awesome answer.


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    Christin Sander (ChristinS) 2 years ago

    Oh my goodness so much wisdom here too - love all the answers here :)

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