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Why do you think most nice guys in western culture are lame?


Yesterday I asked a question why women date bay boys, when they can date cool guys? A response I got is that nice guys don't posses cool guy quality, while bad boys better match. Having live in Asia for a long time, here, there never lack nice, responsible & smart guys, who are also cool, tough, confident, edgy, charming and smooth, but now think back to the west, it do seem, most nice guys in the west, don't have these qualities (although small majority do, eg Barack Obama is like this super cool President.) But why are most nice, smart, responsible men from western culture lame?

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Anna (Anna C Taylor) says

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2 years ago
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    peter565 2 years ago

    In ur opinion why u think, in west, most women say "where all good men gone" and western girls living in Asia say "Western men are jerks"? :)


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Jessica (superbootbot) says

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    peter565 2 years ago

    To ensure we are on the same page, the type you see as "bad boys" are they bad people or maybe e.g. not Christians or something else?


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dashingscorpio says

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    peter565 2 years ago

    Interesting, westerners in Asia find Asians(especially Confucius-less&Buddhist)rebellious&nonconformist(eg unlike west whom put up with corrupt dark age gov, Asians quickly rebel against bad authority)but otherwise, they are respectful&re


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