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I doubt many (men) would pursue a relationship with a woman they found completely unattractive. Everyone is entitled to have "preferences".
Shallow is in the eye of the beholder: short/tall, non-smoker, weight, race...etc could all be "shallow"
Men want beautiful/attractive women. Beauties get kissed while uglies get dissed!
gmwillians you want people to agree in tearing down another human to feel superior , what is ugly is your statement, a person could get along better with a kind heart then an ugly one. True !
Kiss andTales , It's not about agreeing to tear anyone down! We're acknowledging a fact: (generally speaking) people want to date people (they) are physically attractive to. Ask any man would he prefer a woman (he) found physically attractive.
Dashing I usually agree to your many comments, true as said first impression can be last, but also do not judge books by covers, These questions from gmwillians have been more negative and bias to certain disabilities, and status of rich and poor.
In the "real world" everyone has seen ugly or unattractive people. No matter how kind/nice someone is with a heart of gold when they first saw them they thought they were physically unattractive! Beauty/ugly is in the eye of the beholder.
Exactly Mr. Dashing, NOT EVERY WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL. Many are indeed hard on the eye i.e. ugly. These are the facts.
I'm seeing some really nasty, narrow-minded, bigoted and ugly remarks here on this board -- or whatever it is?
I feel so sad for some of you guys. Two in particular.
You cannot be happy or find joy in life. Just exploitation.
The problem is people really do think this and is expressing their heart, I feel sorry for the people that will be in these people lives , it is one thing written, but another experience being the victim of such uglyiness,beautiful faces but rotten
Yes, but plain/homely women KNOW that they have nothing to offer. Having confidence is fine but there must be a PHYSICAL COMPONENT in that confidence. Beautiful women know that THEY have IT!
I agree with you Grace. Both beautiful and homely people look in the mirror and know which group they are in. Confidence and self-esteem only help one to (accept the facts) and keep on keeping on. It's not the end of the world.
Excellent point. However men don't go out of their way to approach/pursue homely women for dates and relationships.
It's been said: "A man falls in love with his eyes and a woman falls in love with her ears."
A nice face/body easily draws men.
Homely women AREN'T confident, in fact, they're the opposite. They have no self-consciousness nor self-awareness. They are oftentimes quite insecure. They also have NO PRIDE in themselves.
That depends dash for your picture of beauty is not another's
Women who have been damage by terrible effects , fires , acid, beatings, birth defects have husbands , or mates,
Beauty is where you want it to be , the heart is the best.
Kiss andTales , I said over and over again that "beauty is the eye of the beholder". No one is defining beauty here for anyone.
I do not agree in many of the post that tear down others by getting them to agree that another person lacking what another have is a flaw. We all are children of God, lets love our neighbors by words and deeds.true marks of real love.