how do you define being a very hairy man?
i dated a guy once who's only bare spots were on his sides between his stomach and back. i never thought that i would date a hairy guy but when it came to him, it just didn't matter.
we did try waxing his back once(his request, not mine) and it just made him break out horribly. we never did that again.
but really what it comes down to is if you're confident enough to rock the all season sweater and laugh if someone jokes about it. if you don't make it into a big deal, then it won't be. girls dig confidence and i am sure that there is some lady or gentleman out there that would appreciate every inch of you, hairy or not.