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Thanks for your response. He does require me to change in some ways, which may be for my benefit but stressful nonetheless.
I would agree more with this take on it...it's not right or wrong, moral or immoral it is more of being with the right one for you...This is not necessarily a black and white answer. What does your gut tell you?
The goal is to be loved & appreciated for who (you) are!
If your boyfriend "requires you to change" it's for HIS benefit not YOURS! Remember he is not your father!
Too often women later complain about getting "lost" in relationships.
I love my boyfriend a lot, but he wants me to change quite a bit which at times gets frustrating. My ex texted, asking about my pet and the Christmas program here and my boyfriend got really upset. It's stressful.
Ask yourself why does your new want you to change? Why does it upset him so? There sounds more behind this than just the initial question reveals...and more to this than meets the eye. Life is too short to be unhappy or stressed. I hope it works out.