I believe each person holds their own truth and others perceptions of others are reflections from themselves. There was a time when I lived a life as a 'victom mentality' and judged many others truth. Does not get one anywhere, yet an uhappy life. Why would one feel the need to challenge someone elses truth?
I think it a waiste of time and energy.
I would say live for yourself and if you have skeletons, sort them out so you can feel good enough not to be too rapped up in defining other pwople. Enjoy the moment.