How does a man just sleep beside his wife of 4 years go without holding his loved one (no kids) each day when she sleeps beside me she does not want affection when I try to hold her she pushes me away she won't talk about it gives a different reason each time .I am not even allowed to kiss her my Hart is braking each day .How can I fix this ,I can't go on its like living with a flatmate I want a hug
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I really appreciate your in put Can or may I ask if it's ok how do I start that conversation .I am at a loss of life it would seem ,I care very much for her I feel she would take it bad ,am I being silly to feel that, please say it straight upineedit
I would be direct say "I notice you do not feel affection for me? Can you please tell me honestly why so we can work on it?" then listen to her don't get defensive, listen - then maybe ask her to attend counseling with you if it's a possible fix.
I think I go to the doctor with her and see if council is an option I have invested a lot in our future .I see the options are limited your reply is very valid and I may have to consider my happiness over a no sex life thank you
"According to a report in Psychology Today (2012) approximately 25% of all marriages in the U.S. are sexless. That's 1 in 4!"
I can't believe that ... why ?
Thank you that's good advice I will do it this week can't hurt