We know girls are more likely to be sexually attracted to tough guys, they those who are not tough, on first impression, mainly because tough guys can better protect her when there is danger. But, many of those girls failed to understand, that is only applicable if he is a good person. If he is a good/tough guy, then he would protect his wife or girl friend when she is in trouble. Those who are lesser won't risk the danger to protect her, even if he know he can bash up the aggressor easily. Then there are those who might be abusive, these just pose more as a threat to her then safety.