Yes, Devaki and vice versa. We can also be guilty of same even without knowing! After 33 years of daily spiritual practices, I still feel this, although I will say that there are different levels or degrees. It seems a very common one in the workforce, but it needn't be there. Could be we covet our friends husband, wife or lover; their house or car; their sweet and gentle nature or their exuberance ....the list is endless.
Devaki the answer is the same. With all things, we simply throw onto them the Light of Consciousness. There is no other way. If you are in a dark tunnel, or travelling on a dark winters night, what will illumine you is the Light. You can also have a sudden awakening and see things a different way, but you will find that even this comes from Spirit.
Rely on a Higher Entity, and all will eventually be well. Have patience.