Stalking is an invasion of privacy. We all have this "personal bubble" that we wish no one cross. As a victim of excessive stalking, I think this is a disturbing reality. There is no excuse for a woman or man to stalk a past spouse. I tried putting myself in the stalker's shoes but I truly can't see why this would ever be ok. I think some people just don't know when to let go, if a person no longer wants to be with you then stop bothering them. People always ask me how I get over relationship's so easily and that is because if you don't want to be with me then I won't humiliate myself to bug you. The worst thing to ever hear from a boyfriend/girlfriend is leave me the fuck alone, when you hear that then you've just crossed a line of were there is no returning.