Everything was great, he was sharing with me personal things--something that scorpios don't do. He has introduced me to his family, and has told me that he really likes me but he is afraid of messing things up with me. We didn't have sex right away. But when we did (it was the most incredible night ever) all of a sudden he went MIA. He has been hot and cold since then. I have only seen him for fifteen minutes in the last three weeks! In his defense, last week, he did have a family disaster last week and he was out of town for the whole week, but he came back Sunday and nothing. HELP!
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We've dated before. That's why he said he is afraid of messing things up. We dated like 15 years ago when he was in the military. He asked me to move in with him. I declined. We were too young and he wasn't being faithful back then.
His present behavior could also be an indication he's cheating this time around as well. Living together or even been married isn't proof of monogamy. There's no excuse for only having 15 minutes to spend with someone You Really CARE about. IMO
Dashingscorpio, you're right. I just don't want you to be right. I can't cry right now because I'm in front of my students, but I'll just cry it out later for a few dozen hours and then move on. :-(
Just know your future lies ahead of you and not behind you.
In a world with over 7 Billion people in it odds are in your favor there are lots of men who would love and appreciate you. Let go and move on. You're going to be fine.
Another thing. he has told me more than once that I'm perfect for him and exactly the type of woman he's been looking for. He keeps joking about getting me pregnant (kinda creepy actually) but he says it so much that I'm not sure if he is joking...
I'm sorry, but he is playing you. Ignore his phone calls. Block them if you have to. Given what you just told me, there's no question he is very bad news.