your secrets & deepest feelings with, to seek solace & comfort? (Is this person, a family member, friend, professional or "other?" You needn't mention a name)
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When my mother was alive, I could ask her anything and she would do her best to help me along that particular path. I must say that I've not found that complete honesty since. A husband, a friend never reached that part of my heart that needed a smil
Thank Heaven 4 UR kind of Husband! They're nearby, loving & FREE! 4 Spouses to B best friends, is invaluable. Good 4 both of U! :)
and as I told Ruby.....Can't get better than Mama! At least "most" Moms and especially GREAT Moms like ours. Bless their hearts! Thanks Maria. Glad to see you!
Wes, Nothing wrong at all about being a sort of recluse-by-choice. Each experience & lesson in life, matures us toward less dependency upon "others." It's a comfort & acceptance in our own wisdom & self-assurance. Much 2 B said of silent
Hey Sha....Not surprising a strong independent woman like yourself, relies on her own abilities& smarts to work things out! I'm with you on that GF! Nice new photo! Write on!!!
It's a wonderful thing 2 have a spouse one can be understood by & who doesn't need a lot of explanation Bcuz they just instinctively KNOW. I'm sure U feel blessed.
Great choices, GF. I'm quite close w/ my 4 sons, so I agree w/ UR habit of consulting your chickies. My sons R all so different, I have a confidant for 4 different kinds of issues!! LOL...Hugs SFAM! Be good! Love, Effer
Nothing wrong w/ Being an independent loner who prefers to work things out on her own. I can relate 2 the "trust" issues. We always gamble w/ that. Soooo How's UR method working 4 U? :)
Depends. I am probably a little more open with friends than I used to be. But there are still times when I just sort of retreat or talk to friends without mentioning deeper thoughts on an issue or situation. Laughter is good and so is companionship.
I suspect a bit of "I can do it myself" & "I know what's best for me." Why do I suspect this? Because this is a huge sign of independent gals, of which I am a MAJOR party!!
My grandma used to say, "She's not stubborn; she just knows what she wants!"
Ruby Jean...Something wrong that won't let me comment under yours! Sorry hon! Hope U see this! Can't get better than MOM! She's the best when it comes to comfort!
I noticed u can't comment 2x n a row on the same thread in the questions.
Shan...We can only comment under another comment when the word "comment" is displayed. 4 some reason it did not show up so I could ans. Ruby. Can't respond 2X in a row?
You mean...like THIS??? LMAO!! I have secrets!! You should know that!
Well, wtf, u need to spill ur secrets then b/c I couldn't get the comment button twice in a row on the thread I wanted. And I tried refreshing the page. Did you log out and back on??? And if I did it on mine, y couldn't u 4 Ruby? All she did was answ
There, now you can continue
NO No & NO....Has nothing 2 do w/ logging in or out.What I tried 2 tell U was the BLUE wording...after we post, it normally displays "comment." If it doesn't U can NOT comment! & U can't post 2x in a row!
YOU, Shan Marie, can't post 2 in a row w/o the secret!! LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.....
Thx, Eric. At least somebody loves me! I knew what I tried 2 tell me already. The blue button doesn't come twice in a row for me!it hasn't in awhile.
Tim, I can definitely appreciate UR use of UR muse 2 write it all OUT. How easy & comfortable is that? Seeing UR own thoughts in blk & wht. Being able 2 read & think. Solutions usually arrive!