your secrets & deepest feelings with, to seek solace & comfort? (Is this person, a family member, friend, professional or "other?" You needn't mention a name)
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When my mother was alive, I could ask her anything and she would do her best to help me along that particular path. I must say that I've not found that complete honesty since. A husband, a friend never reached that part of my heart that needed a smil
Thank Heaven 4 UR kind of Husband! They're nearby, loving & FREE! 4 Spouses to B best friends, is invaluable. Good 4 both of U! :)
Wes, Nothing wrong at all about being a sort of recluse-by-choice. Each experience & lesson in life, matures us toward less dependency upon "others." It's a comfort & acceptance in our own wisdom & self-assurance. Much 2 B said of silent
Great choices, GF. I'm quite close w/ my 4 sons, so I agree w/ UR habit of consulting your chickies. My sons R all so different, I have a confidant for 4 different kinds of issues!! LOL...Hugs SFAM! Be good! Love, Effer
Hey Sha....Not surprising a strong independent woman like yourself, relies on her own abilities& smarts to work things out! I'm with you on that GF! Nice new photo! Write on!!!
Tim, I can definitely appreciate UR use of UR muse 2 write it all OUT. How easy & comfortable is that? Seeing UR own thoughts in blk & wht. Being able 2 read & think. Solutions usually arrive!
Nothing wrong w/ Being an independent loner who prefers to work things out on her own. I can relate 2 the "trust" issues. We always gamble w/ that. Soooo How's UR method working 4 U? :)
Depends. I am probably a little more open with friends than I used to be. But there are still times when I just sort of retreat or talk to friends without mentioning deeper thoughts on an issue or situation. Laughter is good and so is companionship.
I suspect a bit of "I can do it myself" & "I know what's best for me." Why do I suspect this? Because this is a huge sign of independent gals, of which I am a MAJOR party!!
My grandma used to say, "She's not stubborn; she just knows what she wants!"
Ruby Jean...Something wrong that won't let me comment under yours! Sorry hon! Hope U see this! Can't get better than MOM! She's the best when it comes to comfort!
I noticed u can't comment 2x n a row on the same thread in the questions.
Shan...We can only comment under another comment when the word "comment" is displayed. 4 some reason it did not show up so I could ans. Ruby. Can't respond 2X in a row?
You mean...like THIS??? LMAO!! I have secrets!! You should know that!
Well, wtf, u need to spill ur secrets then b/c I couldn't get the comment button twice in a row on the thread I wanted. And I tried refreshing the page. Did you log out and back on??? And if I did it on mine, y couldn't u 4 Ruby? All she did was answ
There, now you can continue
NO No & NO....Has nothing 2 do w/ logging in or out.What I tried 2 tell U was the BLUE wording...after we post, it normally displays "comment." If it doesn't U can NOT comment! & U can't post 2x in a row!
YOU, Shan Marie, can't post 2 in a row w/o the secret!! LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.....
Thx, Eric. At least somebody loves me! I knew what I tried 2 tell me already. The blue button doesn't come twice in a row for me!it hasn't in awhile.
and as I told Ruby.....Can't get better than Mama! At least "most" Moms and especially GREAT Moms like ours. Bless their hearts! Thanks Maria. Glad to see you!
It's a wonderful thing 2 have a spouse one can be understood by & who doesn't need a lot of explanation Bcuz they just instinctively KNOW. I'm sure U feel blessed.