What is the key? Choosing the "right mate" for yourself!
The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least have a mutual depth of love and desire for one another. Compatibility trumps compromise!
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!
The three top reasons why marriages fail are:
1. Married the wrong person. (The couple is too incompatible.)
2. A "deal breaker" was committed in the eyes of the other.
3. They fell out of love/ (grew apart over time)
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.
The choice is up to us.
Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.