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    Melvyne (Melvyne Mongati) 3 years ago

    I agree with Precious..wouldn't want my man to have eyes on any other lady


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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    I allow my husband to do what he wants, he is my head, fortunately we both serve God, and take our vows seriously, and lovingly so there is no need for me to worry

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    I disagree, lust is each person's sin, and nothing CAUSES it but the person doing the lusting

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    Jasminey7 12 months ago

    I think it can be an addiction with some people, while others watch it for the pleasure but not all the time. There are people who are more susceptible to addiction. Or so, I've been told/heard.

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    Olive Clarke 2 years ago

    Thank you for this! Porn destroyed my marriage too. It's an amazing and disgusting fact that the sex industry makes so many billions in a year.


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    Levertis Steele 3 years ago

    Read the Song of Solomon, and you'll know that sex is for procreation as well as pleasure. Human beings do not have a mating season like animals. God did not design us to go into heat periodically.


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    Levertis Steele 3 years ago

    The man is making love to his hand, and many of those women have fake everything. Even their performances are fake. Like prostitutes, they pretend to be excited. Some men are just plainly dumb like puppies mounting a boot to mate.


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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    Why would you allow him to? We are suppose to forgive our spouses, not divorce them. But I am sure it is hard to forget, and trust again. Sorry this happened to you

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    Annie (Darknlovely3436) 5 months ago

    well said

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    redssunshine 6 months ago

    I would be ok with my SO watching porn once in a while. But when I found out he was watching it, and I confronted him in a way that I hoped wouldn't make him uncomfortable. But his denying makes it sneaky and makes me feel betrayed.

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    redssunshine 6 months ago

    Your right. I am on that position. I've always been secure with myself and tried opening our horizons in the boudoir, but he wasn't too open. But when finding he's watching porn, not me, and denying,hes making it sneaky and I feel betrayed.

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    Levertis Steele 3 years ago

    Truthful porn gazers would say that they prefer to fantasize about their porn stars when making love with their wives who are clueless.


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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    Are you saying we don't want our husbands to watch porn because we don't feel as pretty as the porn stars? What about the ones like me, who have never seen a porn movie?

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    It is only me 3 years ago

    I wrote my above post nearly a year ago. I feel as sad & depressed today as the day I wrote that post,. I was recently diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I go from smiling to sobbing (in public), in a second.. Can a man call this love

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    It is only me 4 years ago

    To Intuitive Mind: You are right, life is short. I am 60 yrs. old. Up until 3 yrs ago, my husband & I had a great sex life, until we got a computer & digital cable. My husband got curious,began watching porn, & he could not function with


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    It is only me 2 years ago

    I am sorry but, I have lived my 30 yr marriage directing all sex & sexual thoughts toward my husband. But 25 yrs into our marriage, my husband admitted that porn made him think only of other women, even when we supposedly "made love". How's that?


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    Levertis Steele 3 years ago

    Porn gazers are like alcoholocs. Some have the alcohol gene and some do not. The risk is that you never know until . . .


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    It is only me 2 years ago

    You are right in one respect. If you hate porn & your husband won't stop, then yes leave him. However, I think your 2nd point is wrong. I believe men are capable of being more than "stupid animals". Men, like women, can be whatever they set out t

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    Kiss andTales 6 months ago

    Rain , I am so sorry for your anguish and pain on this subject. This is a growing problem all over the world.

    And maybe you are fighting a battl. that only the Heavenly Father can help you with, its in the heart that this developed in.

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    So your recommendation is to sneak around and watch porn, when your spouse is away?


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    It is only me 3 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with admiration of a beautiful person. But getting turned on over other women instead of your wife, and having an orgasm over other women instead of your wife. Might as well put a condom on & stick it here & there. Why

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    It is only me 13 months ago

    As my husband's porn interest increased, his interest in me decreased...to the point of... he began always choosing porn over me. Not a very nice thing for a wife to deal with. My self esteem & self worth took a huge hit. My womanhood was gone.

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    It is only me 3 years ago

    That is not true! Porn users may have a wife who is the best lover in the world & beautiful too. The man may even know this, but he turns to porn instead of his wife. I can't fathom that people still believe this misconception. Wow!!!!

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    It is only me 3 years ago

    Some day he'll be in the mood for only porn & not you, so enjoy while you can like I did, because I am not enjoying now.

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    It is only me 4 years ago

    Be careful. I was just like your wife at one time. Now, being much older, my husband loses his ability to function with me when he self pleases to porn. And it lasts for months. I get pissed when I catch him now, with damn good reason. Heed advice!


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    It is only me 3 months ago

    Absolutely right! Yrs ago, my husband had the stamina for both porn and me. But as his energy dwindled with age, he chose porn instead of me. All of the young wives who don't mind porn now, will be starved for intimacy someday...just like me.

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    redssunshine 6 months ago

    How is a woman to compete with 2 barely legal females in a porn flick. I gave him the green light to watch together, but his denial took the front seat. We women need to value ourselves and never compare to another.

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    T. Clifton (BuffaloGal1960) 3 years ago

    Also, someone else made a good point regarding not respecting women, so I will add - these women are someone's daughter, someone's sister, someone's niece, soneone's granddaughter. We should really teach our sons that one!

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    Aime (Aime F) 2 years ago

    Not true. Sex-positive feminists fought the anti-pornography crowd in the 70s. Erotic novels date back to the 1600s and I doubt "dirty old men in raincoats" made up the 40% of those who were actually literate at the time.


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    redssunshine 6 months ago

    I meant THUMBS UP... cannot change, I think this is a great point. But when you give the option to your man, and still denies doing it, it just feels hopeless. I was ALWAYS a sexual person till the hidden truth.

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    It is only me 4 years ago

    When you get older my friend, watching porn with self pleasure kills a man's libido for marital sex, and the wife (me), is stuck living my life with no intimacy. We were married 30 yrs with good sex until porn came along 3 yrs ago. Now, nothing!


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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    I agree 100% with everything you've said. Many pretend they don't know this

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    Why do you see these as loving acts? That's not loving. Porn stars are usually those who failed in every other attempt at a job, either through laziness, or stupidity, and nothing else


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    Kiss andTales 5 months ago

    SAHM, one woman should be all he needs,

    Allowing one to view another in a sexual way opens a can of worms.if he can view on a screen ,he can feel why not in person.

    Or the next best substitute.

    It's not good at all even for you morally.


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    SecretSAHM (SAHM9) 5 months ago

    It's funny you say that, because my husband and I have been together 15 years and he has always enjoyed porn! Our sex life is healthy and fantastic!


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    SecretSAHM (SAHM9) 5 months ago

    I am no Victoria Secret model, but I wouldn't deny my husband the chance to look at one and admire her. Hell, I would too! Do you think putting unreal expectations on any person would lead them to cheat or be secretive in what they do?

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    And what makes them jealous (husband lusting after others) is more poison than anything

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    It is obvious all of you consenting womern are missing something in your marriage, and your love is not whole.


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    It is only me 13 months ago

    When men watch porn, they most often lust over other women & their wives just become the convenient sperm receptacle. Nothing loving or intimate in that!

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    It is only me 3 months ago

    You do realize that when men watch porn, it's all about them connecting sexually with other women, instead of their wives. And, if you watch porn with him, you become his sperm receptacle...while he is having an orgasm over another woman. How Loving!

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    lbritestar2 3 years ago

    computers, cell phones, social sites have made it all to easy for both men and women to stray and cheat. I to have been going through the same thing.


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    It is only me 6 months ago

    My husband told me that he desired to know what every woman in the world's vagina looked liked. So, I got to the bottom of his porn viewing, but I can't say that I was happy with his answer. I'll never be everything that he wants....obviously.

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    It is only me 13 months ago

    Porn is nearly always viewed by husbands, behind their wive's backs. And, if my husband is any indication of what some husband's are thinking when they climax to porn, then some husbands are having an orgasm over their ex-wife, like mine loved to do.

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    Aime (Aime F) 2 years ago

    That's a massive generalization. Some of us are completely okay with porn. My husband watches it and is completely honest about it and I assure you he is neither terrible nor uncaring.


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    It is only me 2 years ago

    Let me hear you say this when you get older. When you are an aging woman, & the women of porn are still 19, let me know if you enjoy porn then. Over 30 yrs. ago, I was you, saying the same things you're saying, & excited about my upcoming wed

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    Levertis Steele 3 years ago

    If it takes porn to lead to great sex, then, the porn star arouses him and is probably on his mind during the greatness.


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    It is only me 13 months ago

    I was never intimidated, disgusted or even insecure. Porn ruined our marriage. My husband developed Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction & it was all downhill from there, for at least 8 years. He quit porn & his passion for me returned.

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    Deborah Sexton 2 years ago

    It IS cheating


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    It is only me 9 months ago

    For some women, including me, it isn't the amount of time that my husband is spending looking at porn, it's just the fact that he is looking at it at all. It makes me feel cheated on and not good enough. It is extremely painful; and men don't get it.

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    It is only me 13 months ago

    Improve? The husband has an orgasm with the thought of another woman on his mind & his wife becomes his covenient sperm receptacle. That certainly doesn't improve intimacy in marriage. A good marriage needs no porn to improve the quality of sex.

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    It is only me 5 months ago

    For the most part, I don't think women care what the reasons are for their husbands watching porn. It makes wives feel like they are not good enough, so their husbands are seeking to pleasure themselves with other women, instead of their wives.

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