When Is It Right For A Girl To Sleep With A Boy For The First Time?
I believe this is an "opinion" question.
My opinion is, after marriage, same for the male. There is no bias here because of the individual's male/female status.
I think some considerations that should be on the table before people answer this question is:
Are their benefits of having sex at an early age? (None)
Are there social benefits for having sex at an early age? (No)
Are there potential risks? Oh yea!
Are there social risks? Oh yea!
Is there a social costs at risk? Public health costs, single-mother, welfare, food stamps, child mental health, etc., etc. (Yes)
Are there benefits for having sex before marriage? (No)
Are there benefits for after marriage? (Yes)
What are the potential risks? (Many)
Does the short-term pleasure of a roll in the hay, offset the risks and potential personal and social cost to society? (No)
Or should it just be all about me and what I want right now?
A society is about us all. The more you live for "I want what I want," the harder you make life for everyone else somewhere along the way. Your behavior has consequences unto yourself, people around you and people you'll never meet.
We have a responsibility to each other and our kids, not our genitles.
Name one benefit for society or even one other person - besides the few minutes of joy in having sex before marriage.
For every benefit you can name I can name two or more negatives. Name one that's not totally weak and lame - then I may accept your answer to when a girl (or a boy) should have sex.
Thats my opinion.