This might just be me, but often when I share a problem with my partner, what I'm really looking for is someone to justify how I'm feeling. Of course, if I'm being ridiculous, I would except him to gently tell me that. But usually I'm looking for a little support for my point of view. Sometimes that's all it takes to get over whatever the problem was in the first place!
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