I'm in it for love. But, I believe true love brings security with it. No, I don't believe in marrying or being in a relationship for money, or a house, or a car or whatever down the road. I do believe that true love brings trust, respect, understanding, intimacy, and a more deeper love as time goes on. Money, houses, cars, etc, - all the material things- don't inhance love, rather they detract from it. I don't believe in marrying "to get ahead". May be I'm just a 'cockeyed optimist', but I want true, passionate love, a love that lasts or nothing at all.