I have learned that if I want to be free, then sometimes I have to make some tough decisions. This means that if I have done all that I could do to make matters better, but the other party continues to make things worse, then I need to distance myself from them. Sometimes this can be difficult to do, but you have to find a way to pull yourself out of the negative. Another thing that I have learned is that no matter how people treat me, I need to do my best to portray the character of Jesus Christ by loving them anyway. Yes it hurts at times, but it is much better for you to forgive and love, than it is to live with an unforgiving heart and hatred. I pray that I have answered your question. God bless and don't forget to pray before you make any moves. Let God guide you!!!