I face obstacles all the time. If I was not so into "being good" I would probably do things illegal. However, that is not my nature. I follow and listen to my attorney and to the Judge and follow and adhere to their advice. Sometimes the actions that are required of me are painful. However, my children are worth every penny, test, disappointment, etc that I must endure. At the end, there will be an end, my children will know that I never gave up.
I rely on my higher power to guide me much of the time. It is by giving up my will to my God, that God strengthens me and gives me the ability to endure. I have complete faith that I will see my children again. Although, at times, I desire that it was on my time schedule.
I believe that everything happens for a reason. Sometimes a person does not know why we experience the trials that we do until we are much older and wiser.
I have learned great patients in my trial (although I have my days). I would love to suggest ideals to you; however, I do not wish to give you bad advice. Let me ask you a question, have you exhausted ALL your legal avenues?