Well, as my husband has cancer, we have to be careful for the most that we can do right now, as he is sick alot of the time. We find romance to be the simple things. Once you are sick or taking care of a sick person, you look at life differently. Things that used to matter the most to you in the past, they don't mean that much anymore (I'm talking about material things). So the most romantic thing I have experienced isn't sexual or even pricey. It's emotional, by taking my husband out for walks, picking flowers, and talking. Because the most romantic thing ever is just getting to spend quiet times with your partner.