Satisfying your partner is part of the plan in a relationship.
Without carefully taking the vital steps to keeping them pleased we run the risk of someone else coming into the picture which is not good on ether side.
It's best to learn all you can on what they want and what they need. Keeping a careful watch on how and what we say and do to them. Love them completely and not half way. Marriage is suppose to be one of the best moments of your life so we have to invest as much as they invest in every way. No exceptions. When you say I do, we're also saying I will offer you and honor you all of me and share you with no one and go the extra mile to please you until death do us part. Why do they withhold? That's an important question to ask.
It would be cheating if one knowingly withholding their love from their partner knowing they know what they need. On the other hand if one never does the research to know what to do that in time would be considered cheating from a certain point of view.
Returning the favor is part of the plan if you want to wear that ring. Love without passion is the act of holding on to someone that doesn't mean that much to you, in short that is settling for less. Giving with all your heart is the act of holding on to someone which means everything.
I believe we should all marry the love and divorce the doubts. If it's real love, passionate love, there are no limits.NONE! Even if it doesn't look great at the moment. Love will always rise as satisfy until it's over flowing. If it is not real love it will fade away or one will forever have to hold there peace in pain, sadness and that isn't good. Give with all your heart for the one that really matters to you. We're not perfect and no one should expect that but one should expect to be loved in like manner as they give. Never give up on love. Love is your best. Never settle for less. Find every reason to hold on to love and give it with all your heart, not part of it.