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Why do guys always send girls mixed messages?


I always heard if a guy likes you and wants to talk to you, he will, but what happens if he initiates conversation then stops talking after I answer? I'm confused, help!

 

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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    It isn't only the females who give the mixed messages. Guys aren't always the analytical ones. To say such shows the amount of gender stereotyping you have been instilled with. Its a personality trait not tied into whether they are male or female.

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    Mahadeb Kar (supremeupbeat k) 2 years ago

    confused and '4. He probably is thinking of what to say back where he makes a point or doesn't sound like a complete ass.' this answe sounds like psychologist's reply.


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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    or maybe he is just having anxiety over impressing her instead of just being his authentic self. LOL kids.

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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    When facing vague or mixed messages ask clear concise, well thought out direct questions to get the answers you need. If you come off to strong.... at least you aren't dealing with the nonsense of mixed messages.

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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    and all it takes is a set of questions to determine the real meaning

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    Larry Wall 3 years ago

    Humans are complicate. The first way to avoid confusion is that neither party, male or female, should think they are superior in any way to the other. I knew a girl, about 90 lbs.Some guy thought he was stronger. She could break boards with one hand.

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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    mix messages can be done by male or female. The only way to conquer this is to ask clear concise direct questions.

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    Jessica Ellen Holbrook (violetheaven) 3 years ago

    How about just asking well thought out clear concise questions. That's what I have to do with vague mixed messages.

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