I truely love my boyfriend but theres this girl who likes me and i think im fall

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   kittercat400posted 13 years ago

   I truely love my boyfriend but theres this girl who likes me and i think im falling for her,...
   
   what do i do?

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   Hridyapal Bhogalposted 13 years ago

   didn't really get your question.....you have a boyfriend..means you are a girl....but another girl seems to be in love with you....???

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   wizardAlvinposted 13 years ago

   Being human, and I am assuming you are human, you will most likely experience the full range of human emotions. Love, hate, like, lust, happiness, pleasure, pain, and so very many more. These emotions will to varying degrees attempt to control you. Or seem to control you.
   
   If you are able to realise this, be aware of this, you have control in that you can see 'I love ...' or 'I dislike ...' or 'I must have ...', as appropriate.
   
   Love, i believe, is one emotion that can be given in unlimited quantities. Love is given, never taken.
   
   Ask yourself am I giving ... [love, friendship, happiness, and the like]?
   How am I 'falling for'? Am I entering something, giving something, wanting something, expecting something, needing something?
   
   This is not an answer as only you may provide that. Perhaps it is a way you might be able to think about what question, questions you could ask yourself to get an answer.
   
   regards
   allan

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   Diane Insideposted 13 years ago

   If you truely loved your boyfriend you wouldnt' be asking this question.

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   sellmesomethingposted 13 years ago

   Go where your heart takes you it might m
   be hard at first but everything will work out in the end.

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   dabeanerposted 13 years ago

   Wow, two questions recently prompt me to give the same answer:
   ménage à trois?

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   Jaggedfrostposted 13 years ago

   Alvin that was a cool answer.  On that note it might be observed that thinking about how you feel in the here and now might not help the situation.  It seems drudgery to consider but you might think about what future you might give either person.  It the words of Robert Frost, "look down one as far as I could to where it bent into the undergrowth then took the other as just as far...."  There is nothing wrong with weighing your options.  It doesn't bode well to sit on the fence though.  Once you make your decision any vacillation becomes an issue for you to resolve not an emotion that needs exploring.  Those who vacillate find themselves lonely in the end and that is worse then clinging to either fate you have before you.

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   jasper420posted 13 years ago

   pick the one who you feel most comfortable being around dont lead eaither one on this is wrong and can be very hurtfull

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