'There is this place, where women are afraid to look....'
Frank Herbert, Dune.
You don't, Mother Nature made us this way for a reason, and made women the way they are for a reason. Yes, it's good to talk, for women.
Already you are using language that is alien to men: open up, express his feelings, what's on his mind, look at the quote up top, you don't want to know, relationship issues.
Why did Mum make us this way, because we can put a spear through an enchanting deer or an arrow through an endearing rabbit, emotion gets in the way, do we like it, well no, not really, but we have to eat and keep warm, it's to do with survival. What are women good at in the survival stakes - stability, relationship issues, feelings, emotion...