You have no hope; you have been so indoctrinated by the feminist, politically correct, emasculate society brigade that you are afraid to use masculine, gender specific terms:
'guy' instead of man and 'their' instead of his. You have used partner when you are obviously referring to a woman, unless you've discovered some biological miracle.
You have used four feminine gender specific terms: she, her twice, ladies, and you have used no neutrals when referring to women
Sorry, until you come to terms with your own gender, you will never be able to cope with women.