Don't feel bad; my husband does this too. Sometimes I know I said the truth about our son and that is his golden boy, so he is upset. It is immature behaviour and does not help the marriage. My husband only goes a day or two, because his other needs kick in. Just write or go to a movie or phone a friend. It is not your issue. Suggest counseling. You are worth more than being treated this way. Best of Luck.