Not every woman is meant for every man and vice versa.
Since each of us chooses our own friends, lovers, and spouses we have to assume responsibility for the people we allow into our hearts and lives. In other words if you want an apple but buy an onion instead....Whose fault is that?
Selecting the wrong mate for yourself generally will lead to a break up or living in a "go along to get along" scenario.
A person has to know his or herself very well, what they want and need from a mate. Then they need to maintain self-discipline while dating and refuse to settle. Most relationships are the results of impulsive decisions, circumstances, or happenstance.Very few people take the time to analyize if a person is a good fit for them before becoming emotionally attached.
We can't blame the store of life if we decide to purchase the wrong product. Whenever two businesses come together both companies practice "Due diligence" or take a hard look at the opportunity before making a decision. "Never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions!" YOU are responsible for your own happiness!