It seems this may be too late, as I just came on board a few days ago, but it sounds as if you still have maybe feelings for this girl, but your thoughts are sending you another direction. First, sit down and collect your thoughts. Weed out the thoughts that produce negative, angering, and unhappiness. Focus on those thoughts that provide support, acceptance, enouragement, trust, and respect, maybe first for your inner self before you attempt your relationship with this girl and her family. Make decisions based on your beliefs and values; what is important to you, what you are willing to be flexible about, then take a look at what your relationship was like. Lastly, once you get self-acceptance, then, sit down and talk to your girl to see if her beliefs and values will provide a good match for a peaceful and harmonious relationship with effective communication that you both can be happy and satisfied. I hope it is not too late, but if it is, I hope you can find this information useful for current or future relationships.
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