I would like to add to what angel said by reiterating it, and applying it to women. I know a ton of women who are living a mediocre life they've settled for when they could have attained supreme happiness. It's sad to see someone spend the only life they'll ever get in a world of 'meh' when they could be living in a world of awesome.
That being said, as for your question, I hate stereotypes. Not all men are oafs, not all women are shopaholics, not all men are clueless without a woman, and not all women need someone to go to the washroom with them.