How does he respond to the things that his friends say? You are his woman and the mother of his children, so he not only must respect you, but demand respect from his friends as well. Though we all hope that our partners friends and families give their seal of approval of the relationship, sometimes the reality is that people just don't like you. Share with your boyfriend that his friends words are offensive and make you uncomfortable and see what his reaction is. Make sure he takes you seriously and deflect anything that would turn it into an argument. State your feelings and communicate effectively.