Well tell her........... you'll either have your heart broken sooner than later or will be in a relationship sooner than later. Good luck! Don't hold back on the way you feel and the things that you want but more importantly nEEd in life. You are living to enjoy life, not be half stepping second guessing and as you are doing now......LISTENING TO WHAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY. Follow your heart even if it'll get you emotional screwed up for a bit, at least you cant say you never got the ChANce to know.
P.S when someone tells you No, believe and know that there is someone somewhere that is waiting to tell you yes! ciao
Vonda G. Nelson