Some say no and some say yes, I supose it all depends on the reason behing cheating in the first place? I was cheated on by my first wife, and it took a long time to forgive and even longer to forget. But it did happen,we can't change what we have done in the past, we can only do our best not to repeat it.My ex cheated because there was something missing in her life, I was not able to fulfill the need or acknowledge it . I think it is wrong to cheat on anyone male or female, but it happens and we have to face it in our own way. So I will not say yes, and will not say no, for everyone is different. We ask God for forgiveness, and we are told to forgive those who do wrong to us. It's up to you, what you do.