The topic of feelings can be very hard. Most humans would find this offensive however, others maybe comfortable with it. Why?
When a man has an affair, we as women want to know if she was prettier, better in the bedroom etc.
When a woman has an affair the first question a man may ask is if she loves the other man. Men are more intimidated by the potential for and emotional attachement then the actual sex act.
With all of that said, How do you feel about it?