i actually have fell for guys who were not my standards.
well first of all when i meet a guy, i don't really judge them to be my future lover right away. i actually do want to be friends without any misunderstanding. i like it better that way. like you both don't expect anything from each other. cuz like me, when i find out that a guy likes me. i expect more of them. if they would really pursue me that they love me, then i might just actually believe them. like the latest guy i have fallen for. he really took the time to know me an respected me.
the guys i fell for before? i was attracted to them physically but it wasn't like i was in love. its normal to be impressed with looks. but really, its the thing they did that made me fall.
why do you ask this question anyways? are you trying to pursue someone whom you think you don't have a chance with?