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Did you make the decision to come out? Or, did someone else out you?


There are a lot of questions from straight people wanting to know if being gay is a choice. Nobody knows the true answer to that, but we do know that we eventually have to come out and say who we are. So, did you decide to come out on your own? Or, did someone else out you? Or was it a combination of both? For me, I came out to friends and family when I was young (1985, I was 20) Then I was later outed at work. So it was a combination of both. Hope I get some answers, there may be someone out there who needs to read this. It might help someone who needs it.

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