Being in Love Sums up Beauty, Youth, & Faith
While bitter lips states that love is a monster that eats your heart’s flesh out, the sweet ones contradicts this statement.
Truth be told, pain is part of everything including love itself. But, have you ever balanced out which weight is heavier? Is it the pain that tags along or the priceless joy that accompanies with you throughout your journey of romance?
To have a closer look and wider perspective on relationships, let's cite an example.
The 2004 novel-adapted movie, The Notebook influences that love wins no matter the circumstance.
To weigh off the query, try to put on Noah Calhoun’s shoe. A young but common fella who fell in love with a rich and beautiful, Allie Hamilton.
The two immediately got along despite their status differences. However, their relationship wasn’t all about excitement and glee.
When Allie’s mother, Anne Hamilton learnt about her daughter’s affair, she wasn’t so happy. She sent Allie away and kept all 365 letters Noah had written for her sweetheart.
With total blindness, Allie decided to move on. In an army house where she worked, she met Lon Hammund, a handsome and rich gentleman. The two had understanding and soon got engaged.
But just when everything was alright, the past haunts her again. One day, a newspaper content flabbergasted her. It was Noah, the first love of her life. The man who she missed for three long years.
On the other side, Noah and his best friend Fin joined the army. Unfortunately, Fin didn’t make it back home. Noah’s father left him too leaving him broke and alone.
He tried to conceal his loneliness and dated another woman but, love wouldn’t lie. He decided to build the house he and Allie once dreamt and went on a sole journey in search of her.
When luck was finally on his side, things were complicated than before. Allie was left with confusion between her commitment to Lon and his feelings for him.
Just as the old saying goes, “No smoke can be kept at hand,” tears cascaded in her eyes the moment she learnt of the truth. No matter how Anne tried, the lovebirds found each other at the end.
But struggles didn’t left them that easily. Years later, Allie suffered from memory loss where Noah’s love and strength was again challenged.Day after day, he reads their love story to her with the hope that she will soon remember him.
You see, he could choose to give up on her and play himself safe from the pain, but he chose to embrace it because he believed that the joy that he could have in the end is priceless.
Now that you have walked on his shoes, are you still afraid to take a risk? Have you figured out which one has carries more weight?
In case you haven't seen the movie yet, I recommend you to read the book.
It contains non-violent substances, therefore is good for anyone. Plus, it will give you more understanding on being in love.
Written and published on 1996, Novelist Nicolas Sparks takes his readers into a realm where love wins no matter the circumstances which later became a world-wide hit.
- Amazon.com: The Notebook (0070993007508): Nicholas Sparks: Books
Amazon.com: The Notebook (0070993007508): Nicholas Sparks: Books
The benefits you can get from falling in love
I. It strengthens your faith
Tackling back on Noah and Allie’s love story, realize that hard times are there to test your courage and measure your willingness to sacrifice for the one you love.
Despite the quality and quantity brought by each challenge, if you choose to not quit and pursue what your heart yells, it strengthens your faith.
II. It makes you prettier
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A passionate relationship improves your looks because:
- It heals wounds & covers up old scars from the past
- Encouragement from partner boost confidence and motivation
- It changes your lifestyle into a positive outlook
- You can be fully express yourself without hesitation
- A hand is always there for you at through harsh times
III. It cuts of aging
It seems almost impossible for several people to maintain their younger looking self specifically women. And it increases insecurity feelings to know that surgeries are expensive.
Luckily, a solution is within your hand. And that is simply staying in love. Here’s why:
- It relieves stress
- Increases oxytocin -- a hormone that influences good social interaction and sexual reproduction
- Improves heart health
Imagine yourself being in an intact relationship with compassion and tenderness, it feels good, right?
Being generous, positive, and committed are the ingredients you need to bloom because it feels good. Freeing your heart from negativity makes you holistically pretty, the main secret to looking younger.
After learning the benefits you can get from falling in love,
Are you still willing to take a risk for love?
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2019 Shing Araya