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Chnlove is a scam
I want to help men avoid this website. It is a scam. It is very expensive and you will only loose your money and get nothing in return. I will tell you my story with Chnlove. Then if you decide to go ahead with buying credits, please realize the only thing you'll get is an ego boost if you believe the lies..
There are plenty more like myself with a bad experience with CHNLOVE and their affiliated dating agencies.
You can read them all here by clicking on: HUNDREDS OF COMMENTS ON CHNLOVE
My actual profile on Chnlove
107 admire letters received so far using this TERRIBLE profile and counting!
So... I've decided to write a profile no real women would reply to.
If they did, they would certainly comment on the content.
Here it is...
If by chance you are a real lady, delete your profile immediately. All agencies are deceiving the men on this website. The success stories are fake. You are wasting your time here. Your agency is writing the letters for you and impersonating you on this site to make men spend money. If you spent money on the professional pictures and agency services, you also wasted your money.
To the agency employees...
Since none of you agency employees actually read my profile, I assume you will continue sending me letters that have not been written by the ladies in the pictures. You should be ashamed of working for your company. You write the profiles for them so that I never learn anything real about the ladies. You do nothing honest and continue to charge ridiculous fees for these services. You will say anything in the correspondence so men will continue spending money. You use every devious excuse to avoid communication outside this website. You are worse than prostitutes. At least they are honest about what they offer. I wish you a miserable life in your crowded polluted city. I hope you die alone and miserable."
I know, I know... pretty drastic, dramatic and nasty. My profile has not been flagged. No letters mention any of the content. Despite this letter, I get admire letters every day from ladies who claim to be fluent in English saying they actually read my profile many many times and that's why they "chose to write me".
How Chnlove appears to be a good dating site
Chnlove has a great website
When you get to their site you will read "Meet Thousands of Beautiful Chinese Single Girls". This statement is half right. (I will get to that later)
Creating a profile is relatively simple. Of course, your next step will probably be to start searching for the women of your dreams.
Chnlove is easy to navigate. You will like the options it offers. But you will probably hesitate when it comes to buying credits considering what it costs. But, don't worry! Chnlove has a very convicing approach for you to take out that credit card.
The Chnlove Experience
what you can expect from Chnlove
One of the first things you will notice on this Chnlove dating site is how often you get "Admire Letters" from beautiful ladies. (6 letters every day!)The letters are all similar. "I am very excited to find your profile", "I have read you profile many times and it gives me a special feeling", "I like you very much", "Love has no boaders and doesn't care about age, distance or looks", "I am a great cook", I love to travel, sing, make you a beautiful life" etc. You will also get constant chat requests which will cost you an average of $3 every 5 minutes.
Eventually among all the pretty ladies, there might be one that makes you buy credits to respond to her admire letter. You will probably be amazed at how quickly they talk about "our future".. You will be surprised at how quickly she starts using the "L" word. Many say they don't need anything from you as they are already financially secure. Others will tell you how lonely they were before you came along. The letters will usually be short and will not answer all of your questions. Nonetheless, they will say beautiful things and always send you gorgeous pictures to keep you coming back for more.
If you decide to fly out to China to meet the "future mrs.", odds are, when you get to the dating agency, she is nowhere to be found. They will say "we have other ladies you can meet because yours in unavaiable". You have now waisted thousands of dollars and a flying home alone.
Chnlove typical video
If you want to watch any video of any women on this chinese dating website, it will cost you 2 credits ($3.99 to $7.00 per credit depending how many credits your buy at a time).
That's right, $14.00 American dollars to watch a video like this one.
My Experience with Chnlove
Eventually among all the pretty ladies, there was one that finally made me buy credits to respond to her admire letter. We communicated for 3 months. I spent around $500 in credits (because each letter I send costs credits as well as each letter SHE SENDS!) No matter how many times I requested that we communicate outside Chnlove, she always had a good excuse. "The last guy sent me nude pictures of himself", "I am not ready", "I have an old computer and no webcam... maybe in 3 months"..."Don't we need Chnlove if we can get married in the future?"
I gave up on her and starting looking at more ladies. Then something funny happened... 2 of the letters I received (admire letters) were almost identical! I wrote to to Chnlove to let them know that I had serious doubts about the authenticity of the letters I received. Their reply?
Here is their response word for word:
"How are you? This is Tina writing back to you. Hoep this mail finds you well!
From your message, we know you are wondering why there is the same paragraph in different ladies' reply to you. We can fully understand your feeling at this moment. And just now, we also received the feedback from the related Dept.. As advised, after checking with these 2 agencies respectively. it somes out that , the paragraph in concern is actually from the Internet, since the ladies think this paragraph can express their meaning and feeling at that time.
From our observation, because of unexperienced in online communication, many ladies especially the middle-aged do not know how to express their feelings to a foreigner. To attract the gentlemen's attention, they will search for some lyrical English paragraph on the internet with the translator's help (the translator may translate what the paregraph means to lady). If the lady thinks that paragraph could express her feeling, she may use it in her mail. So, this may be the reason why some letters from two different ladies look a bit similar. Hope you could understand.
Dan, some ladies may use certain methods to attract a gentleman's attention and obtain his reply. Of course, the ladies may also ask for advices from their translator, while sometimes, the translators had not done a good job as Love Guidance. We have talked to the agency's manger. He will pay more attention on this matter. Thank your for bringing this matter to our attention.
In the meanwhile, I have forwarded your case to our Billing Department. To express our gratitude for your support, they agree to present you 2 credits as a special offer. Hope you will find your ideal mate soon in our site.
Thanks again for your support to our service. Please feel free to let us know if you have additional question or concern. We'll be glad to help our sincere clients."
I won't comment on the content of the letter. You can make up your own mind.
I'll just say that my BS detector was going off like crazy.
Since that time I have stopped using the site.
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The Most Important Thing About Chnlove
If it seems too good to be true.
(i.e.: gorgeous single ladies send you constant letters, profess their undying love for you and want to move to your country and be your devoted wives)
Then it probably isn't true.
- The letters are all fake and written by dating agency staff
- Chnlove denies all responsibilty
- The associated dating agencies supply the correspondence and profiles
- The ladies have no idea the agencies are impersonating them.
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