- Gender and Relationships
Eyes are the mirror of your soul
You can see on a persons eyes if he or she is telling you the truth
When a person is asked a question, the eyes are reveling if the answer is fabricated or true. The body language is also always telling a clear story but the eyes are also so easy to read. Basically, you look for the eyes moving left or right, up or down.
This lens will give lots of information about how we can "read" a person through looking at the eyes.
Here is also some information about the debated way to see in the eyes if a person is healthy or not.
Eyes are talking
Look into the eyes and see if a person is lying to you
Amazing site about revealing lies - practice and test this!
Once you have learned this, you cannot watch an interview on TV or see your friend telling about something. I attended a course many years ago and am still amazed how well this works!
- How to tell if a person is lying
Eye movements are giving a person away. You can see if he or she is telling the truth from memory or if the person is fabricaing an answer =)
From the site above - excerpt
When asked a question a "normally organized" right-handed person looks (from your viewpoint, looking at them):
looking up and to the left
Up and to the Left
Indicates: Visually Constructed Images (Vc)
If you asked someone to "Imagine a purple buffalo", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Constructed" a purple buffalo in their mind.
looking up and to the right
Up and to the Right
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images (Vr)
If you asked someone to "What color was the first house you lived in?", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Remembered" the color of their childhood home.
To the Left
Indicates: Auditory Constructed (Ac)
If you asked someone to "Try to create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Constructed" this this sound that they have never heard of.
eyes looking right
To the Right
Indicates: Auditory Remembered (Ar)
If you asked someone to "Remember what their mother's voice sounds like ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Remembered " this sound.
eyes down and to the left
Down and to the Left
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic (F)
If you asked someone to "Can you remember the smell of a campfire? ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.
looking down and to the right
Down and To the Right
Indicates: Internal Dialog (Ai)
This is the direction of someone eyes as they "talk to themselves".
The Gist of it...
How this information is used to detect lies:
Example: Let's say your child asks you for a cookie, and you ask: "Well, what did your mother say?" As they reply "Mom said... yes.", they look to the left. This would indicate a made up answer as their eyes are showing a "constructed image or sound. Looking to the right would indicated a "remembered" voice or image, and thus would be telling the truth.
Read and learn about Talking eyes - and bodies
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How to read eyes
Now what - will you test this?
Do not tell anyone what you just learned. Try it out on somebody when you know the answers. Ask silly questions and look at how they have to create an answer and then see how the eyes are working when you ask a normal question from their memory
Is it possible to see if a person is lying?
About the debated ability to see into the eye if/how a person is sick
"Look into my eyes my dear " is a popular and seductive quote based on the romantic notion that the "eyes are the window to the soul". It is well known that certain emotional states such as stress, sexual stimulation, and intoxication with certain substances can cause characteristic changes in pupil size.
Iridology is an entirely different concept that claims actual disease, both physical and emotional, can be diagnosed by visible changes in the pattern of the Iris.
These books describes how differences in the shape and color of the iris in the human eye reveal the state of one's health. The second book is a Kindle
Is iridology science?
There are many voices talking about iridology. What do you think. Is is possible to see into the human eye and discover illnesses?
Iridology - this is what I think
How to draw an eye or two
I have learned that it is so difficult to make two eyes that are alike.
How to draw an eye
Since I love to draw, I have to share these excellent videos. Keep practicing and you will be more and more skilled. Maybe develop your own style.
One little tip is that they eye is really a BALL inside two lids
I am watching you!
Photo from wikipedia