I want to teach my cheating husband a lesson by leaving him for 4 weeks but I am

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  1. ritazruby profile image60
    ritazrubyposted 11 years ago

    i hope you didn't fulfill your threat. if you did, whats the result?

  2. TheSloneGal profile image61
    TheSloneGalposted 11 years ago

    my answer to you Hun is not to teach him a lesson because while you are gone he will be having his fun and even when you come back he will be doing it. I would say leave him for good and spear yourself the heart ache of future cheating because men like that if he knows that you are going to leave and then you do he might worry for a bit but then some girl will walk up and grab him. Then when you come back he will say oh yeah I have got her and I can do her any way I want to and she will still stay with me. trust me sweetie

  3. Jlava73 profile image70
    Jlava73posted 11 years ago

    It seems the answer is already clear to you. One should never make life altering decisions in haste when upset. Think it through, have an honest discussion with your husband and tell him how what he did makes you feel.

  4. ravenlt04 profile image61
    ravenlt04posted 11 years ago

    How'd this work out?  I've heard separation suggested before as a means for truly determining whether both parties want the marriage.  One of the top rules should be that no one see anyone else!  The husband should definitely be the one to leave, but I wonder how one would convince him to?  And I think he'd be pissed about you leaving him without discussing it and coming up with a plan.  That would just create more issues, and you'd violate his trust for you then.

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    Dandraposted 11 years ago

    Your fear is radiating to him and is making him feel bold. You have to risk it. Then he sees you and thinks "hmmm maybe I should think about how I'm behaving"

    Also, he totally needs to leave not you babe!

  6. Darknlovely3436 profile image73
    Darknlovely3436posted 11 years ago

    A little word to the wise, you leaving him isn't go to work, it is only given him more freedom to presude his cheating habits...stop be afraid, stop feeling paralyse his cheating habits. rent a movie about the  "Burning Bed...or click on a link about Ms.Bobbit....

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    pria22posted 11 years ago

    I suggest you to clear all doubts, i am make sure its not just the misunderstanding...
    God bless you!!!


  8. juiwei2000 profile image59
    juiwei2000posted 11 years ago

    You can always take half of him money in a divorce, what are you so worrie about, plus he need to pay you alimony anyway, who cares if another lady hump him, just give you more material to use in court.  Relax smile

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    denzkaposted 10 years ago

    i really need your advice, last week a saw the mistress and confront about the affair, and then my husband came and said she choose the mistress than be, I’m so devastated and so hurt. but he continues to txt me and last Saturday we have celebrate our wedding anniv. weird but he miss me and he want to have a child with me again in January. my question is why he choose the girl but he wanted too see me and spend time with me. he wanted to continue, in so confuse about this.

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  12. Mystee Crockett profile image76
    Mystee Crockettposted 5 years ago

    You are in control of your life. He is not. He certainly won't "forget" you. You're married. He may, however, decide he likes life better without you. Are you ready for that?
    If you are trying to teach him a lesson, forget it. He won't learn your lesson, you'll feel used, angry, frustrated and hurt. Decide what you really want, and do that.

  13. BittyBuddha profile image67
    BittyBuddhaposted 5 years ago

    Typically if you are going to pack bags and leave- you  need to be mentally prepared to LEAVE. This should be used as a last resort wake up call to tell him to change his ways or you are done. If you are doing this just to give him a fright, but ultimately aren't wanting to leave- then this serves nothing more then to show him immaturity, and the fact that you will stay and tolerate cheating. Try to focus on yourself and your wants- as well as looking at your relationship from a logical point of view. pros and cons. Find out if you can forgive cheating, or is this is truly a deal breaker.

  14. Emmanuel Shamoun profile image38
    Emmanuel Shamounposted 5 years ago

    To be honest, I feel like giving him 4 weeks of alone time will only make him want to do it more.

    The thing is, when a man cheats, the foundation of the problem comes by asking , what he is lacking in the current relationship.

    BUT.. in saying that , cheating is not right. But to stay lingering about it , won’t help if you want him to stop cheating and start being faithful

    There are options, such as ;

    -Sit him down and ask him why he did it
    - find out what he is lacking in the relationship and fix it ( however, if you cannot fix or provide what he is lacking, then you need to leave)

    - couple counselling ( this allows emotional exposure and relief but also it will make him come to a realisation about how much this has impacted you and will likely show him the amount of damage he has done , for example, he will question whether it was worth ruining the relationship over a 3 min affair).

    Hope this helps ✌


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